Today, I proudly announce, I’ve landed upon an elevated plateau, the one labeled Age 90, the Big NINE O. I saw it coming, of course, but even that advanced warning didn’t diminish the grin-producing pleasure streaking through me as I awakened this morning. I’ve actually arrived! I know of no prizes given to those who hang around this planet for nine decades. Nevertheless, I consider it to be a minor accomplishment (not to mention a lucky one), something like back-flipping into a pool without a splash. I’m aging happily!
In the accompanying photo (taken in this morning’s sunshine), I’m seated in front of my version of one of Frank Stella’s works, one I painted some 30 years ago.
Aging, by its very nature, demands changes, and the latter half of life is lived on a downward slope. I’m okay with that. In fact, I’m still sliding downward with glee. To report that I’ve lost a lot during my advancing years is like reporting that leaves drop from trees as the days shorten. Nevertheless, I remain reasonably mobile. Nearly every day I set off for walks ranging from 30 to 60 minutes, The longer jaunts, over mildly uneven terrain, cover more than three miles, all this with minimal increases in my heart rate and little puffing.
I own no hearing aids and peer into most of each day with eyes uncovered by lenses. I do, however, don glasses at times while driving, or watching a movie, or when settling down with book or newspaper.
My good balance continues to keep me from stumbling, a fact that reminds me of my favorite contemporary essayist, Joseph Epstein (1). He, upon reaching 70, reported that he had begun to use the handrail when descending stairs. I’m a second-floor guy, and I usually head downward straight in the middle of the stairway, arms swinging. Admittedly, caution creeps in when I step down a staircase while packed together with others, say in a crowd surging out from a symphony concert. At those times, I skim a hand along a rail, just in case.
I haven’t, of course, escaped the inevitable decay. Examples are abundant and obvious. My joints show signs of rust. My memory has more holes than all the golf courses in Phoenix (even simple facts often refuse to come out of hiding when summoned), and my analytic skills, such as they once were, now lurk behind impenetrable barriers. All of this I’ve accepted with what I believe is the proper spirit.
In short, I’m extremely grateful for all that remains in working order, and most days I’m pleased as punch to be alive. Reasons abound. I’m fortunate to have a son and a daughter, both with families I love and admire. I have a small nucleus of friends, fewer than I would prefer, but nevertheless they too add color to my life. Existence continues to amaze me.
Even puttering with this blog gives me a sense of – I search for a word – fulfillment! Admittedly it takes more effort than my antiquated brain had imagined, but I find satisfaction while writing the little essays I serve up here. Writing actually does seem to stimulate my diminishing population of neurons, to keep them from dozing when I’m so engaged. For that reason, I shall continue essaying, and opining. I’ve revealed a selection of my adventures, along with some misadventures, (see one here). More are on the way. Stay tuned!

This photo was taken last summer. On the wall beyond the Stella painting is my version of one of Edvard Munch’s works.
I don’t intend to make this a photo gallery, but I just received the shot below. It was taken yesterday by my granddaughter, Megan, as we had breakfast together.
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